The Shape of That Emptiness

How the road looked that night, we won't know that, 
if the sky was still black, or gray, or bluish-gray, 
or if the light was starting up, the birds.  
We won't know what was said in the car, 
if the radio was on, what station, how loud. 
Or where you and Roger thought you were off to, 
out past town, so late, so fast, not toward your home 
or anyone's home we knew.  I'm stalling.

Near four.  You swerved,
split the car on a telephone pole, were killed.
He was thrown clear.

Maybe a squirrel in the road, maybe a slick patch.
Or else you argued, he grabbed the wheel.

For a long time, because he lived,
it seemed important to think that.

Look: you were drunk.  It was your fault.
I can say that.

*

I'm the first to enter your apartment;
I want to keep your secrets.  
And catch your ghost?  What I get 
is this: imprint of your body 
in the sheet's hollows,
half-empty mug of coffee,
shopping list, unfinished letter,
smell of your skin on a red sweater.

*

At the viewing, I admire the parlor's furniture.
On the sofa, a team of hounds is running.
Flags wave gaily.  Our mother says,
you made my child a wax-doll.

I'm given warning: the process 
of reconstruction, so delicate,
touching is forbidden.  Even a fingeró
they tell meócould spark the crumbling,
the collapse of all their efforts.  We might have urgesó
they speak so gentlyówe will resist them.

*

So cinematic, those first days.
Your life's another story.  Here's all I remember: us driving 
back from a party on the bayou, REO Speedwagon on the radio, 
daquiris sweating between our legs (I try to call up your face, 
but your long hair's always in the way).  And your arms, 
currents of muscle under your skin. 
And also, I've got an image of the last time I ever saw you, 
but it's just your legs below the knee, and the sound of the vacuum.  

*

I was 17; you were 23.  It's been
eleven years: I'm older
than you were, than you will be.
Our brother has children, cats & dogs,
quail, even a raccoonóall the pieces of a life, and then some.
Our parents moved up North; their house now
has no doorbell to trigger Mom's nightmares.
Dad loves the snowóit covers everything.
I guess you could say 
we're happy. Is that okay?
Is this what I'm supposed to do, give the news?
All's well at Camp Earth.  Send money.

My friend Laura's brother died suddenly.
She makes these sculptures, large rocks with flour
dropped over them; and then the rocks are
carefully taken away, so that what's left
is just the shape of that emptiness.

That's what I wanted
when the house
was full of people
and ridiculous hams and casseroles,
pictures of you everywhere.
I turned them over,

went out to walk the dog.
The world looked
exactly the same
without you.